You said ‘Yes’ to the Bridesmaid Proposal! Now what…?

As soon as your bestie got engaged, you knew this day was coming. It was only a matter of time before a lovely little gift box showed up at your door, asking you to be her bridesmaid. If this is your first time being someone’s bridesmaid, you’re probably now wondering what’s next after the proposal?

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There are of course no strict rules on what you should do after receiving a bridesmaid proposal. That being said, here is a great place to start:

Think Carefully Before You Say Yes to the Bridesmaid Proposal

Once you have received a bridesmaid proposal, the first thing you probably want to do is say yes. It’s your best mate, of course you want to be there on her big day!

Before you call her and accept the proposal all the roles and responsibilities that go along with being a bridesmaid, think about the commitment you’ll be making. Do you have any other major life events that could coincide with her hen party, bridal shower or the actual wedding?

You want to avoid being in a situation where you need to choose the birth of your nephew over your best friend’s wedding. If there is any reason you may not be present for some of her events, you need to give her a heads-up asap.

Let Her Know How Much It Means to You

Now that you’ve thought everything through, you can go ahead and agree to be her bridesmaid with enthusiasm and excitement. Call her up and tell her how honoured you are to be her bridesmaid, and how grateful you are for her proposal. You could also send a heartfelt note telling her how excited you for the big day, and the journey to get there.

If you have any concerns about your bridesmaid duties, now is the time to bring them up. She’s probably knee-deep in wedding planning already. The sooner you let her know your concerns, the easier it will be for her to plan around any potential issues.

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Post the Bridesmaid Proposal on Social Media

If your best girl went all out and sent you a bridesmaid gift box filled with goodies, show her some love on social media. Whether she made the gift box or bought it, your friend deserves some recognition for a wonderful proposal.

Block Off Time in Your Calendar

Although the bride may not know specific dates for pre-wedding events, she should have a general idea of when the wedding day will be. This will probably be included in your bridesmaid proposal, but on the chance it’s not, find out the wedding date from the bride and mark it off your calendar as soon as poss.

While you can’t completely plan for events that haven’t happened yet, it’s helpful if the bride knows the month in which specific events are likely to happen. For example, if you know that the hen party is in March, you can try to avoid scheduling anything on the weekends during the entire month.

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Say Hello to the Other Bridesmaids and Introduce Yourself

There is a good chance you will not know some of the other bridesmaids. So, before any of the festivities commence, why not get their numbers and set up a WhatsApp group together. You’ll be working closely with these girls & boys to plan the bride’s hen party and help with the wedding planning process, so it’ll be good to get to know each other first.

This strategy will also give you an idea of how each bridesmaid will be contributing. If one bridesmaid lives further away, it makes sense to give her tasks that aren’t location-specific.

Get Ready for Unforgettable Moments

Being a bridesmaid is a huge honour and privilege. It’s also a huge commitment of your time and sometimes money.

Still, you wouldn’t dream of being anywhere but by the bride’s side on her wedding day. By planning early and jumping into your role as a bridesmaid, both your wallet and your best friend will be grateful.

Now you’ve accepted the big bridesmaid proposal, it’s time to select your dresses! Book your appointment today at Nabbd and find a gown together that you love!

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